TIPS For Families

Communicating With Children

Written by:  Janet Hanna, Extension Educator
Source:  NebFact Communicating with Children
University of Nebraska-Lincoln Extension
Building Strong Families


Did you know?

  • Infants are mastering language simply by listening to us talk.
  • Babies begin learning about language in the first months of life.  They can hear the difference between all the consonants and vowels used in any language.
  • By the age of 6 months, infants have trained their ears to the sounds of their native language, and they have learned to distinguish these sounds before actually learning words.

Baby talk, or "Parentese," makes it easier for the baby to learn a language because the sounds are greatly exaggerated.

When talking with a child:

  • Use short, simple sentences.
  • Reduce the rate of speaking.
  • Repeat words, phrases and sentences.
  • Repeat what you say to your child.
  • Repeat what your child says to you.
  • Pause between words.
  • Talk about he here and now.
  • Use a lot of questions and requests.
  • Use a slightly higher pitch and an exaggerated intonation pattern.
  • Talk about objects that your child is focused on or actions he/she is engaged in.

Try some of these suggestions when “talking” to your baby.

If you wish to leave feedback about this TIPS for Families, click on the TIPS Feedback Form link below.  For more information on Communicating with Children go to the University of Nebraska-Lincoln publication website at www.ianrpub.unl.edu and click on Families.